If you don’t like what is being said change the conversation. If you can’t change it, change your attitude but don’t complain. If you don’t like someone’s story then write your own. Nobody can teach me who I am or tell me what to do with myself. You can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need is something I had to find out myself.
Two things define you. Your patience when you have nothing you want, and your attitude when you have everything you need.